Have you seen the movie the intern? it’s really great – funny, sweet, entertaining… i can’t say enough good about it. however, the particular bond i now have with this movie, isn’t because of how good the actual movie…but this scene. This scene is shortly after Anne Hathaways character puts her daughter to bed, and then she crawls into bed. This…right here. THIS scene, is where my little tiny co-sleeping daughter asks “mama, where is their baby”. it hadn’t really dawned on me before that she doesn’t realize that a lot of kids sleep in there own room. sleeping with us is all she knows…well, kind of.
yes, there are numerous studies that explain the benefits of co-sleeping (and there are also numerous that debate said benefits)…but regardless, that is not how or why we have ended up here.
immi started out in her own little co-sleeper that was attached to the side of the bed. and she was there for several months. at this point i can’t remember when she grew out of it…but shortly after that, we moved her to her crib…in which i’d wake up once or twice a night to nurse, and then bright and early in the AM….this was fine, until I ruptured my achilles AND my husband was traveling for weeks at a time. before he left, we moved the crib into our room, so all i had to do was stand up (on one leg) pick her up, and lay with her in bed to nurse… well, do you know how easy it is to nurse a baby to sleep and then just catch some Zzzz’s while your at it. yep… it was amazing! i was getting decent sleep! it became habit…she’d get put to bed in her crib, and then when she’d wake up between 4 or 5am…i’d bring her into bed with me and get just an hour or two more sleep. well, fast forward to numerous viruses, fevers, nightmares, etc…and endless nursing…she ended up in bed with us more so than not… we went through phases of being in the crib, phases on being in the bed, round and round…then came the solidifier. hubs going overseas for 3 months. to help me sleep, and to help immi feel more secure, i just brought her into bed with me. it really just came down to both of us getting more sleep. there are other benefits that come with her sleeping with us. let’s be real…i’m a working a mom… a lot of nights, i don’t get home until 7-7:30…that means a quick dinner and bed time. co-sleeping allows us to squeeze in any extra morsel of time we can to be together. we’re together when she falls asleep…and i’m right there to see her sweet groggy smile first thing in the morning – and now here we are. co-sleeping. so, i guess the moral of the story is that no matter your parenting philosophy, we all do what we gotta do.
when it comes to setting aside “mama time” i am awful. its really hard for me to rationalize getting my nails done – or showering for that fact…when i only get an hour or so at night (during the week) with my sweet baby girl….SO when Vanity Planet offered to send me the Spin for Perfect Skin – in the color of my choice (strawberry pink, of course) to review, i was SO DOWN!
I have to be honest…when it arrived, i was a little
intimidated…it comes with everything you could ever need for amaze skin! [I mean, my 6th grade sister did my hair and makeup for my prom…THATS how beauty-related savvy i am]. i quickly flipped through the little booklet and learned what each of the brush is meant for. i LOVE LOVE LOVE the body brush (the big one)…and the exfoliation brush. I haven’t used the pumice stone yet. i start to giggle every time it gets close to my foot.
anyways…the moral of the story is that this little pink spinner is the PERFECT addition to my very simple daily routine.
lavender shampoo bar from lush
rose hydrating facial spray from herbivore
perfect coral blush from Honest Co
spin for perfect skin– DEAL ALERT!! head over to vpwow.com/jeadorespin for 70% off! Use coupon code jeadorespin!
….as you can see – i’m not the only one who got a kick out of the spinning brush.
let’s start off by saying that My Little Pony has been updated a wee bit since my day…i didn’t even recognize what it was when Imbot brought one home. But it’s the same…theme song and all. It really doesn’t surprise me that she is obsessed…she already love unicorns and ponies…so totally makes sense…ANYWAY…since it’s Valentine’s day weekend, i wanted to talk about RELATIONSHIPS…with our babes. They spend so much time doing what we want/need them to do…run errands, wear this, say that, go there…and yes, it’s teaching them real life, etc etc, but it made me start to think about my other relationships…and there is no way a bond would grow – at least not a good one – if i was always doing what they were interested in or vice versa. so i wanted to test and see what would happen if i became interested in something i knew that she really-really loved. so one day i bought the pinky pie hoodie (she has rainbow dash) and surprised her. SHE DIDN’T SAY ANYTHING. She just looked at me and then ran to me and gave me the biggest hug. we ran around in circles (ahem – flew around in circles) for hours and acted as silly as can be… i read an article this morning about how as parents there are so many “last times” that will happen without us even knowing. she won’t want to play with me forever. so for this short time in life – i am pinky pie.
^^thinking about what to write Princess Celestia ^^
nikki (pinky pie)
I’ve been going to Westfield UTC for almost a decade now…but i really-REALLY fell in love with it a couple years ago. We were moving and often needed somewhere to go with our little lady while prospective buyers walked through our home. it basically became our home-away-from-home…they cooked for us, entertained us…even clothed us! hahahaha! so when i was contacted to possibly be a Westfield UTC Brand Ambassador, i was like “uhhh…YES! yes! yes! yes! YAAASSSSS!” and then basically did the ONLY logical thing – RAN to UTC to celebrate with my gal pal at some of our favorite spots.
Lunch at Lemonade! Of course we had to bring LemonDrop…she luurrves anything lemon…and for some reason, Immi was WAY more ok sharing with her, than me. (srsly). I always get a double serving of the ahi tuna and watermelons radish salad…and immi ALWAYS gets the mac ‘n cheese…which of course i have to taste and make sure it’s not too hot.
then some ice cream at the pinkest place on EARTH, SLOANS!…if you haven’t been here… GO! pink, chandeliers, fudge, ice cream…
…and to burn off all the sugar so we could head back and take our naps (yes, naps…) we headed to Palm Plaza for Plaza Unplugged to get our twirl on.
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